What makes a relationship unhealthy?
Do you see any of these signs in your love life?
1.DISHONESTY AND SECRECY: Do you cover up a lie with half truths even if it's something as trivial as what you've been up to the whole day? Whatever it may be, talk about it.
2.DESIRES AND EXPECTATIONS: Do you have secret expectations from your partner, something you haven't tole them about? Expectations in love are good, but only when they are communicated and realistic.
3.LACK OF RESPECT: In a happy relationship, both partners need to respect eachother.They make promises to eachother and keep them, and they avoid speaking ill of eachother's shortcoming.
4.SEX IS THE DRIVING FORCE: Are you and your partner together only because both of you are smitten by eachother sexually?If sex is the answer to everything, that's just unhealthy.
5.UNHEALTHY JEALOUSY:Envy isn't bad, but if it turns to jealousy and you secretly plot ways to isolate your partner from their friends or ask them to find a new job. It's a sign of unhealthy jealousy in love.
6. COMPARISONS: We are all individuals and we are not all perfect. Of course, there may be a few things you want to change about your partner. But that's gives you no excuse to compare them with other.
7. YOU LOVE BEING IN LOVE: But you are not in love. Do you ever feel that? Are you staying in the relationship only because you like knowing you're loved or you are scared of loosing your lover to someone else.
If you are seeing these signs, then you need to think twice!!!
Culled from "Lovepanky"
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